If This Were Your Daughter, Would You Stand Up For Her?

By: Kwame Appiah-Kubi

All Nations International Development Agency

 

Imagine your daughter refusing to go to school because she is ashamed of having her period. Imagine watching her confidence disappear, not because she lacks the ability to learn, but because she fears how others will treat her. Most parents would do everything they could to reassure her, protect her dignity, and help her return to the classroom.

 

Today, many girls in Ganta, Liberia are facing that reality. For them, menstruation is not only a health issue. It has become a barrier to education. Some girls miss valuable days of school because they fear embarrassment, misunderstanding, or stigma surrounding a natural part of growing up.

 

As a result, they fall behind in their lessons, lose confidence, and risk missing opportunities that education could have provided.

 

Looking Beyond the Symptom

At first glance, the solution appears simple. Provide sanitary pads. While access to menstrual products is important, we have learned that it addresses only part of the challenge.

 

The deeper issue is the stigma surrounding menstruation. Many beliefs and attitudes have been passed from one generation to the next, making menstruation a subject that is rarely discussed openly. As a result, many girls experience their first period without understanding what is happening, while families, schools, and communities often lack the knowledge and confidence to support them well.

 

If we only address the immediate need without addressing the beliefs that created the barrier, the problem will continue for the next generation of girls. That is why lasting change requires more than supplies. It requires understanding, education, and partnership.

 

Why We Begin With Advocacy

One of the lessons we continue to learn is that lasting solutions begin by bringing the right people together. Before launching long-term interventions, we spend time listening to communities and understanding the influences shaping the problem.

 

Who helps shape community beliefs? Who influences young people? Who has the ability to protect girls and encourage families? As we listened in Ganta, it became clear that lasting change would require many people working together.

 

Teachers and school administrators need practical training so they can respond with confidence and compassion when girls need support. Families need knowledge so they can prepare and encourage their daughters from the very beginning.

 

Chiefs, opinion leaders, and both spiritual and traditional leaders have an important role in shaping community attitudes and helping remove the stigma surrounding menstruation.

 

Government officials and district leaders also play a vital role in creating policies and systems that protect girls’ dignity and education for years to come. Each group is part of the solution.

 

A Community Saying “Yes” to Girls

Our goal is to gather people who believe every girl deserves to stay in school, regardless of her period, and to use that collective support to engage community leaders in creating lasting change.

 

This is about more than solving one problem for one group of girls. It is about helping create communities where girls are supported instead of shamed, encouraged instead of excluded, and given every opportunity to learn, grow, and thrive.

 

Our prayer is that what begins in Ganta will inspire change in other communities across Liberia as well.

 

Will You Stand With Them?

Throughout history, meaningful change has begun when ordinary people refused to accept that things had to remain the way they were. Today, you have an opportunity to become part of that story.

 

By sponsoring a child in Liberia, joining the community of advocates, praying for these girls, sharing their story, and lending your voice, you become part of a movement working to remove barriers so every girl can pursue the education and future God desires for her.

 

Together, we can help ensure that no girl is forced to choose between her dignity and her education. Because every girl deserves both.

About the Author:

Kwame Appiah-Kubi is a Child Sponsorship Specialist at ANIDA, with over 13 years of dedicated service within the organization. Throughout his journey at ANIDA, he has served in various roles, gaining extensive experience and a deep understanding of the Child Sponsorship program before moving into his current position.

Kwame holds a Bachelor of Business Administration (BBA) in Marketing from All Nations University, which has strengthened his expertise in donor engagement, communication, and program development.

Before joining ANIDA nearly 14 years ago, Kwame himself was an HFT-sponsored child. Having personally benefited from the program, he brings a unique perspective and heartfelt commitment to his work. His lived experience creates a special connection with every child in the program, as he understands firsthand the transformative impact of sponsorship on a child’s life.

Kwame’s passion for child development, combined with his professional expertise and personal journey, continues to strengthen ANIDA’s mission to empower children and drive lasting change.

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